LILY PHILLIPS has become an overnight sensation after her scandalous 100-man orgy featured on online streaming platform OnlyFans.
A documentary called I Slept with 100 Men in One Day, about Lily’s horrific encounters, shows a traumatised young woman holding back tears and saying she didn’t think she would recommend it to anyone.
OnlyFans model Lily was left traumatised by her experience[/caption]
Lily is comforted by her assistant during the ‘orgy’[/caption]
She described the experience as “intense” — and in the video, men can be seen queueing up, each looking forward to their four-minute, one-sided sexual experience with Lily.
British Lily, 23, recalled how during a single day in October — all of it filmed for the benefit of the OnlyFans adult platform — she dissociated from her “challenge”.
Dissociation is a coping mechanism, something that happens as a result of extreme trauma.
But Lily’s story is the latest in a long line of worrying content on the sexually explicit Only Fans website, which is becoming an ever more dangerous place.
One “high earner” on the porn site, Kassidie Kosa, blasted Lily’s stunt, saying: “It sends a message to others in the industry that pushing yourself to dangerous extremes is normal.
“Honestly, I think doing something that extreme can be a form of self-harm, even if people don’t always see it that way.”
And there’s more danger that these women are putting themselves in by becoming “content creators” on the site.
I spoke to three OnlyFans performers who report stalking, blackmail — and being asked to pretend to be gang-raped or act out child abuse.
Jade*, 19, told me: “One man wanted me to dress in a schoolgirl outfit and talk about how I wanted to have sex with my daddy.
Stalking is not unusual
“Another one wanted me to crawl on all fours around the floor begging for help, pretending I had just been gang-raped.
“I had a breakdown eventually, because the way that I was earning money was not healthy — for me or for anyone.
“These men would ask me to do the most disgusting things, and even asked if I would pretend to have sex with my dog.
“They told me they had filmed my performances, which usually involve me getting naked and touching myself, so they could watch it whenever they felt lonely.
“Some of the men were paying money to at least five or six of the other girls.
“They would tell me that and brag, and would say that they would stop subscribing to me if I didn’t do kinky things including dressing in leather gear and having a bloke with me while being filmed.
“One guy was seriously into fantasising about child abuse.
“He had grown-up daughters, and I always felt certain he had actually abused them himself.
“He wanted me to do things like put on a school uniform and say disgusting things to a ‘daddy’.”
Some of the men queue up as they wait for their brief encounter with Lily in the bedroom[/caption]
Some fans get fixated on the women they see on the site — and Janine* once came home from her day job to find a man on her doorstep.
She told me: “I had this regular subscriber.
“He was well off and would pay me up to £100 to simulate sex acts, such as playing with sex toys while wearing stockings and these ridiculous high-heeled shoes.
“One day I got to my flat, which has a separate entrance round the side of the house, and he was standing there.
“I nearly died of shock.
“He was asking me for full sex in my flat, offering to double the money.
“I threatened to call the police, and he said he would make sure I was thrown off OnlyFans if I did.
“The subscribers are always believed if there’s ever a dispute because they’re the ones who pay the money that the site earns from.”
But stalking is not unusual.
I’ve heard of several instances where men have tracked down a content creator and turned up at her workplace — or found an email, WhatsApp number and address.
The idea that these women are simply self-employed “models” is ludicrous.
Each had a “manager” navigating the terrain for her, and was required to upload videos of themselves having “sex to order”.
In plain English, this refers to relatively high-paying subscribers who have asked for an exclusive show in which the content creator would do exactly as she was told by the subscriber.
Sammy*, 21, says: “Each subscriber paid me £7 a week and after the cut from OnlyFans I was left with £5.
“I needed as many subscribers as possible so I could pay my rent, which means posting new images all day every day and agreeing to more and more explicit stuff.
“In the end I just felt exhausted and degraded and cancelled my membership.”
OnlyFans is often cited as a lucrative way for attractive young women to make lots of money, and I am constantly told it is a “safe” way to sell sex “empowering women”.
But the truth is that it endangers women.
Not just those whose content will remain online for ever — its “creators” easily identifiable — but also people who will in real life have been encouraged to view ever more extreme, hardcore porn — feeding violent and abusive fantasies.
Anyone who thinks this has little or no effect in the real, non-digital world must be as stupid as they are irresponsible.
But some wealthy pop stars with huge public profiles think of it as a bit of a niche activity.
In October, the singer Lily Allen disclosed, with some pride, that she had — after being told by her pedicurist that she had nice feet — taken to posting photos of them on OnlyFans.
Apparently, she makes more money from selling these to foot fetishists than she does through her Spotify streams — and when criticised for this online, she responded: “Imagine being an artist and having nearly eight million monthly listeners on Spotify, but earning more money from having 1,000 people subscribe to pictures of your feet.
“Don’t hate the player, hate the game.”
Extreme violence
Another singer in the spotlight regarding her OnlyFans account is Kate Nash, who signed up as a way of making money to help fund her music tour.
Speaking about Lily, OnlyFans ‘high-earner’ Kassidie Kosa, said: ‘I think she needs help. Something like this is a type of self-harm, even if people don’t see it that way. It says that to push yourself to extremes’[/caption]
Controversial OnlyFans star Bonnie Blue recently made headlines for content allegedly depicting her taking the virginity of 18-year-old men[/caption]
“It’s very empowering and selling pics of my a*** is fun and funny — sex is fun and funny.”
Controversial OnlyFans star Bonnie Blue also hit the headlines recently, after making content that showed her allegedly taking the virginity of 18-year-old men.
OnlyFans makes its money by taking 20 per cent of creators’ profits.
Last year, its earnings reached a record high of over £1BILLION and it reported a profit of £52MILLION.
The average OnlyFans creator makes £120 to £145 each month – about £1,750 per year — and that’s before tax, of course.
The top one per cent of creators earn about a third of all the money on the platform.
Lily’s distressing 100 Men performance shines a light on a site that has been hit with controversies for years.
In 2021, a moderator working for OnlyFans admitted that he had found illegal content in videos including extreme violence, use of weapons and animal abuse — despite such content being supposedly banned under the platform’s rules.
The same year, an investigation found children as young as 14 were being exploited on the site.
OnlyFans responded to this by claiming it has a “zero-tolerance policy relating to child sexual abuse material”.
The excuses proffered by OnlyFans tend to focus on the fact that the women are not directly selling sex — only fantasy.
But pornography is just prostitution with an added camera.
The screen between the punter and the content creator may offer some safety but, as we have seen, it can be very easy for men to track these women down.
The idea that women have to resort to selling sexually explicit images and footage of themselves tells us that this is about women being seen as objects — not equal human beings.
Otherwise, why are the vast majority of content creators young women, and the “fans” over-whelmingly older men?
Fellow OnlyFans star Kosa is deeply concerned about Lily’s stunt, saying: “’I think she needs help — and I say that with so much respect.
“The fact that she now plans to sleep with even more men next time is really alarming.
“I don’t think she fully understands the consequences of taking risks like this.”
But Lily is apparently planning her next stunt — 1,000 men in 24 hours — which would be minutes per sexual encounter, non-stop.
This would likely kill her.
An OnlyFans spokeswoman said: “OnlyFans’ Terms of Service and Acceptable Use Policy apply to all users and set out clearly what is and what is not permitted.
“Any breach of these rules by any user may result in deactivation of their account.
“Creators have the power to block and report subscribers, and because OnlyFans creators own the copyright to their content they can elect to delete their content or their account at any time.”
- *Names have been changed
In October, singer Lily Allen proudly revealed that, after her pedicurist complimented her on her feet, she began posting photos of them on OnlyFans[/caption]
Another singer in the spotlight regarding her OnlyFans account is Kate Nash, who signed up as a way of making money to help fund her music tour[/caption]
