LILY PHILLIPS has become an overnight sensation after her scandalous 100-person orgy featured on online streaming platform OnlyFans.
A documentary called I slept with 100 men in one dayabout Lily’s horrific encounters, shows a traumatized young woman holding back tears and said she didn’t think she would recommend it to anyone.
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She described the experience as “intense” – and in the video, men can be seen queuingeach looking forward to their four-minute one-sided sexual experience with Lily.
British Lily, 23, recalled how in a single day in October – everything was filmed for the benefit of Fans only adult platform — she distanced herself from her “challenge”.
Dissociation is a coping mechanism, something that happens as a result of extreme trauma.
But Lily’s story is the latest in a long line of disturbing content on the sexually explicit Only Fans site, which is becoming an increasingly dangerous place.
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A “high earner” on the porn site, Kassidie Kosa, blasted Lily’s stunt, saying: “It sends a message to others in the industry that pushing yourself to dangerous extremes is normal.
“Honestly, I think doing something that extreme can be a form of self-harm, even if people don’t always see it that way.”
And there is more risk of these women putting themselves out there by becoming “content creators” on the site.
I spoke to three OnlyFans artists who report harassment, blackmail — and being asked to pretend to be gang-raped or act out child abuse.
Jade*, 19, told me: “A man wanted me to dress up as a schoolgirl and talk about how I wanted to have sex with my dad.
Persecution is not uncommon
“Another wanted me to crawl on all fours around the floor and beg for help and pretend I had just been gang-raped.
“I had a breakdown eventually, because of how I was earning money was not healthy – for me or for anyone else.
“These men asked me to do the most disgusting things and even asked if I would pretend to do it six with my dog.
“They told me they had been filming my performances, which usually involve me getting naked and touching myself, so they could watch it when they were feeling lonely.
“Some of the men paid money to at least five or six of the other girls.
“They would tell me and brag, and would say they would stop subscribing to me if I didn’t do kinky things, including dressing in leather and having a guy with me while I was being filmed.
“One guy was seriously into fantasizing about child abuse.
“He had grown daughters, and I always felt sure that he had actually abused them himself.
“He wanted me to do things like put on a school uniform and say nasty things to a ‘dad’.
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Some fans fixate on the women they see on the site – and Janine* once came home from her day job to find a man outside her doorstep.
She told me, “I had this regular subscriber.
“He was having a good time and would pay me up to £100 to simulate sex acts, like playing with sex toys while wearing socks and these ridiculous high heels.
“One day I came to my apartment, which has a separate entrance around the side of the house, and he was standing there.
“I almost died of shock.
“He asked me for full sex in my apartment and offered to double the money.
“I threatened to call policeand he said he would make sure I got kicked off OnlyFans if I did.
“The subscribers are always believed if there is ever a dispute because they are the ones paying the money the site makes.”
But stalking is not uncommon.
I’ve heard of several cases where men have tracked down a content creator and turned up at her workplace – or found an email, WhatsApp number and address.
The idea that these women are simply self-employed “models” is ridiculous.
Each had a “boss” who navigated the terrain for her and had to upload videos of themselves having “sex on order.”
In plain English, this refers to relatively high-paying subscribers who have requested an exclusive show where the content creator would do exactly as she was told by the subscriber.
Sammy*, 21, says: “Each subscriber paid me £7 a week and after the OnlyFans clip I had £5 left.
“I needed as many subscribers as possible so I could pay my rent, which means posting new pictures all day every day and agreeing to more and more explicit things.
“In the end I just felt exhausted and humiliated and canceled my membership.”
OnlyFans is often cited as a lucrative way for attractive young women to make tons of money, and I’m constantly told that it’s a “safe” way to sell “empowering women” sex.
But the truth is that it endangers women.
Not only those whose content will remain online forever – its easily identifiable “creators” – but also people who enter real life have been encouraged to watch increasingly extreme, hardcore porn – fueling violent and abusive fantasies.
Anyone who thinks this has little or no effect in the real, non-digital world must be as foolish as they are irresponsible.
But some wealthy pop stars with big public profiles see it as a bit of a niche activity.
In October, the singer Lily Allen be revealed, with some pridethat she had — after being told by her pedicurist that she had nice foot — taken to posting pictures of them on OnlyFans.
Apparently she makes more money selling these to foot fetishists than she does through her Spotify streams — and when she was criticized for this online, she responded: “Imagine being an artist and having almost eight million listeners every month on Spotify, but making more money from having 1,000 people subscribe to pictures of your feet.
“Don’t hate the player, hate the game.”
Extreme violence
Another singer in the spotlight regarding her OnlyFans account is Kate Nashwho signed up as a way to earn money to help finance her music tour.
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“It’s very rewarding and selling pictures of my a*** is fun and fun – sex is fun and fun.”
Controversial OnlyFans star Bonnie Blue also hit the headlines recently, after making content that showed her allegedly taking the virginity of 18-year-old men.
OnlyFans makes its money by taking 20 percent of creators’ profits.
Last year its revenue hit a record high of over £1 BILLION and it reported a profit of £52m.
The average OnlyFans creator earns £120 to £145 every month – around £1,750 a year – and that’s before taxOf course.
The top one percent of creators make about a third of all money on the platform.
Lily’s harrowing 100 Men performance shines a light on a side that has been mired in controversy for years.
In 2021, a moderator working for OnlyFans admitted that he had found illegal content in videos including extreme violence, the use of weapons and animal abuse – despite such content being supposed to be prohibited under the platform’s rules.
The same year, an investigation found children as young as 14 being exploited at the site.
OnlyFans responded to this by claiming that they have a “zero tolerance policy regarding child sexual abuse material”.
The excuses offered by OnlyFans tend to focus on the fact that the women aren’t actually selling sex – just fantasy.
But pornography is just prostitution with an extra camera.
The screen between the player and the content creator can offer some security, but as we’ve seen, it can be very easy for men to track down these women.
The idea that women have to resort to selling sexually explicit images and videos of themselves tells us that it is about women being seen as objects – not equal human beings.
Otherwise, why are the vast majority of content creators young women and the “fans” overwhelmingly older men?
With OnlyFans star Kosa is deeply concerned about Lily’s stunt, saying: “’I think she needs help – and I say that with so much respect.
“The fact that she now plans to sleep with even more men next the time is really alarming.
“I don’t think she fully understands the consequences of taking risks like this.”
But Lily is apparently planning her next stunt – 1,000 men in 24 hours – which would be minutes per sexual encounter, non-stop.
This would probably kill her.
An OnlyFans spokeswoman said: “OnlyFans’ Terms of Service and Acceptable Use Policy apply to all users and clearly set out what is and isn’t allowed.
“Any violation of these rules by any user may result in deactivation of their account.
“Creators have drive to block and report subscribers, and because OnlyFans creators own the copyright to their content, they can choose to remove their content or their account at any time.”
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