A MAN has been left feeling furious after revealing that his girlfriend demanded that he should keep paying her bills, after she cheated on him.
After discovering that his partner of 11 years had betrayed him, the man decided to end the relationship, but that was far from the last that he heard from her.
A man has been left furious after his cheating girlfriend asked him to continue paying her bills[/caption]
Taking to Reddit, the man explained that during their relationship, he had paid most of her bills and had often treated her to nail and hair appointments.
After the breakup the woman told the man that he should move out of the house, but should continue paying her bills until she and her new man (who is unemployed ) could get on their feet.
“She also insisted on keeping my dogs,” he said. “Instead, I kicked her out and kept my dogs.”
This made the woman angry, so she tried to sue her ex for loss of wages, as she had to change jobs after moving house.
When this didn’t work, she tried to sue his workplace, which led to harassment charges being filed against her.
“You’d think she’d stop at that point. But she didn’t. She started messaging every family member of mine that she could find.
“Told them I cost her everything, and that the least they could do is send her money to help her get a place and pay rent.
“When that didn’t work, she went online and begged for people to send money to her cash app to help her with a place to live, and claimed it was a domestic violence situation.
“I don’t understand how she doesn’t get that any financial support I gave her would end if she cheated on me.
“We weren’t married. We don’t have kids. I’ve supported her for years. I owe her nothing.
“I really don’t owe it to her to help her and her new relationship get on their feet and establish themselves.”
The post was flooded with responses from Reddit users, many of whom were aghast at the woman’s audacity.
One person said: “That woman is unhinged. I hope you have permanently blocked her everywhere.”
Four red flags your partner is cheating
Private Investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs your partner might be cheating.
They start to take their phone everywhere with them
In close relationships, it’s normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones, if their phone habits change then they may be hiding something.
Aaron says: “If your partner starts changing their passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere with them, even around the house or they become defensive when you ask to use their phone it could be a sign of them not being faithful.”
“You should also look at how they place their phone down when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, then they could be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
When partners cheat they can start to avoid you, this could be down to them feeling guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner has suddenly begun to avoid you and they don’t want to do things with you any more or they stop telling you about their day then this is another red flag.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be tough, remembering all of your lies is impossible and it’s an easy way to get caught out,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a range of reasons so it may not be a sure sign of cheating but it can be a red flag according to Aaron.
Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but on occasions, they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren’t there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and to them, it will feel good, this can cause tension and anxiety within themselves which they will need to justify.
“To get rid of the tension they feel inside they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they will become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you haven’t walked the dog that day, put the dishes away or read a book to your children before bedtime. A small problem like this can now feel like a big deal and if you experience this your partner could be cheating,” warns Aaron.
A second person said: “Holy Cow, you dodged a massive bullet.”
A third person said: “Thank god you didn’t marry her.”
A fourth person said: “Time to block her on everything. Talk to you family and have them block her on all social platforms as well.
“She wanted to move on with someone else, now it’s time to put on her big girl pants and pay for her own life.”
